Texting a girl can be a pretty fun thing to do once you’re good at it. Most girls will simply melt upon reading your words and easing your way into their hearts will become easier than ever. Of course, this might only come with practice and if you’re completely new at this, you may have to refer to some sample texts and possible responses before going on further. A good tip to start off your texting sessions with a girl that you’ve just met or a girl that you have an eye for would be to play it cool. Don’t sound like the dork or the geek who has never dated a girl before, even if you are one of these individuals.
To do this, you may have to play her for a little bit to tease her feelings. For instance, if you’ve gotten a good conversation going on with her through your texts, you could stop replying her immediately. Take a break of say, an hour or two, and continue on the conversation as if nothing happened. When she asks, you could casually mention that you got distracted watching a video on the net. Things like this may annoy her somewhat as she thinks that you’re more interested in a video than in her. She might even feel slightly offended by that but it’s all part of the plan. By doing so, you’ve just established the fact that you’re not a pushover like the many guys that have fallen head over heels to talk to her. Take a look at this texting guide for more details on this aspect. Indeed, periodical texts to a girl is exactly what many pickup artists have used in their techniques. Ask any experts on this topic and they’ll say the same thing. That letting a girl gain control over you will never end well. You have to be the one who’s calling the cards. This brings me to another point.
When you ask a girl out through a text, don’t make it seem as though you’re free to accommodate her at any time she wants to. State clearly that you’re only free at this particular moment in time and you could see her if she wants to. Otherwise, you’ve got other things planned. By texting her that, she’ll have little option but to agree to that if she ever wants to see you. Letting her know that you’ve got a busy schedule, even if that’s not completely true, will make you look wanted. In her mind, there are probably other girls who are waiting to meet up with you and she should jump at any chance to meet you.
Additionally, if a girl takes a long time to return your texts, you can do the same thing too or you can bring it to a whole other level. Take for instance a situation whereby you text a girl asking about her day. She replies to your first few texts within minutes. After a while, she starts taking longer and her responds only come 20 or 30 minutes later. Instead of trying to keep her in the conversation by replying her texts quickly, do the complete opposite instead. The texting game is meant for two so use this to your advantage. Punish her for this. Take 2 hours before you text the girl back. More likely than not, she’ll return your texts within minutes. If the girl continues to take her own sweet time before she texts you back, take it a step further. Send her a text the next day instead. Of course, this should be about the worst that you can do to her. Waiting for 2 or more days before responding to her text will be bad for you because she might have forgotten what is it that you were talking about in the first place.
When you play this waiting game however, it gives you value and shows that she’s not the only thing that’s happening in your life. Texting is just as much as a skill as knowing how to flirt or seduce a girl in real life. For some powerful text flirting advice, you’ll probably need to get some insight from a more experienced individual. With the right texts, you can make a girl love you even before you actually meet her in person.